Letters from a Private Investigator VI

Emotional Infidelity

“Do you love her?”

“No, it was just sex.”

We have all heard this kind of dialogue between a man and woman lots of times on the TV and in movies. It is an exchange when one of them has been caught cheating (usually the man).

I would not claim that TV and the movies are real life, but for sure there is a reflection of a culture, sensibilities and human feelings in any form of art (Hollywood and HBO included).

“Do you love her?” reflects an appeal on the person cheated that all could not be lost so long as there is not an emotional connection between her man and the “mistress”. “It was just sex” is an escape of sorts – OK I have done something terribly wrong but I did not break trust in the most important aspect of the relationship, the emotional bond.

Both phrases (“Do you love her? and “It was just sex”) revolve around an assurance that there was no emotional investment in the affair. Both state in their own way that betrayal through the physical is somehow less important than betraying an emotional bond.

Indonesia Private Investigation Agency has dealt with 100s of infidelity and cheating partner cases. This is a very sensitive area and as anyone will appreciate our clients are very emotionally charged and vulnerable. Indeed often we spend much time with our clients in a role similar to that of a counselor. From these hours and hours of talking I could not over emphasise just how heavy an infidelity that has an emotional aspect weighs. Many clients seem to find it far easier to deal with an affair that is only physically based. Of course they are angry and hurt, but if there seems a chance that an affair has an emotional foundation the hurt seems more complex and runs deeper.

What is Emotional Infidelity?

Recently cheating has been reclassified to include not only the physical aspects but also the emotional.

Emotional infidelity can be described as an extramarital affair or extra partnership affair that does not include sexual behaviour. Some experts believe that emotional infidelity can be more damaging than physical infidelity. In emotional infidelity, one member of a couple becomes deeply emotionally invested in a person other than the spouse. The spouse having this type of affair may spend time thinking of that person, anticipating meetings with him/her, and gradually becoming more intimate (platonically) with the person. At the same time, intimacy within the primary relationship suffers, and the nonsexual and even sexual attention paid to a spouse lessens dramatically.

David Moultrup in his book “Husbands, Wives & Lovers: The Emotional System of the Extramarital Affair” defines emotional infidelity as “a relationship between a person and someone other than (their) spouse (or lover) that has an impact on the level of intimacy, emotional distance and overall dynamic balance in the marriage. The role of an affair is to create emotional distance in the marriage.”

We only have a limited amount of emotional energy. The more emotional energy devoted outside the primary relationship, results of course in less being invested within the primary relationship.

Emotional infidelity may take on different forms. Maybe intimate conversations with the someone of the opposite sex or someone that one is attracted to.  Emotional infidelity may also take place online via social media, chat rooms, on hand phones through texting, and by time spent with someone in secret and building a “friendship” and eventual emotional connection.

There are at least 12 warning signs to alert you to take action to protect yourself and your relationship from ‘emotional infidelity.’

1. “We’re just friends”

If you think “we’re just friends,” about someone of the opposite sex you may be on dangerous ground.

This reasoning allows someone to make excuses, (or in some cases to tell lies – to yourself and others) about something you know deep down is wrong.  In most cases an intimate friendship with a member of the opposite-sex poses risks.

2. Sharing intimate thoughts and feelings. 

Sharing your thoughts and deepest concerns, hopes and fears, passions and problems is what deepens intimacy and an emotional bond between two people. If things go this far, this could be a betrayal of trust.

3. Discussing your relationship and partner. 

Telling someone of the opposite sex about your marriage or partner sends a very clear message that you’re available for someone else to ‘love and care’ for. This can also be a breach of trust. It is similar to gossip in that it creates a false sense of a shared connection, and an illusion that you as a person, along with your happiness and comfort and needs are totally valued by this new person (when, in truth, this has not yet been put to the test!). 

4. Comparing the ‘friend’ to your partner. 

Another sign to be aware of is a thinking pattern that finds what is ‘good’ about the friend and ‘bad’ and ‘unfulfilling’ about the partner. This can lead to building a kind of ‘for’ (the friend) and ‘against’ (your partner) case.  This is another mental breach of trust. 

5. Always thinking or daydreaming about the person.

If you find yourself unable to wait to see this person and share news, and think in advance about what you’re going to tell them when you meet, and imagine how they may react, you’re in trouble. Feelings of expectation, excitement and anticipation release dopamine in your brain, which in turn can reinforce patterns of negative thoughts against your primary partner.

6. Believing this person understands you like no other.

This kind of feeling usually appears in affairs and romantic encounters during the early months. With time these feelings tend to fade. In the context of an emotional affair believing someone understand you like no other can be dangerous to a marriage. A sense of mutual ‘understanding’ forms a bond that strengthens and deepens emotional intimacy. This in turn releases pleasurable neurochemicals, such as the love and safety hormone oxytocin. This focus also puts you in a ‘getting’ state of mind, approaching your marriage in terms of what you’re getting or not getting, rather than what you’re contributing.

7. Pulling out of regular activities with your partner, family, and work.

When you want to spend more and more time talking, sharing, and being with the person, it’s only natural to begin to resent time you spend at home and work. Consequently you start distancing yourself from your usual connections or make excuses for not joining regular activities with your primary partner. You can become withdrawn, irritable and unhappy.

8. Keeping what you do secret.

Secrecy is a huge warning sign. Secrecy creates a distinct and exciting closeness and unique bond between two people. But the bond can be unhealthy – there may be a false sense of emotional trust with the person, and an unwarranted mistrust and suspicion of the partner, or those who try to interfere with the ‘friendship.’

9. Keeping a growing list of reasons that justify your behaviours. 

This is an addictive pattern of thinking that focuses your attention on how unhappy you are, and blames your primary partner for any unhappiness. This pattern of thinking can create a sense of entitlement and forms a pool of resentment from which you feel justified to mistreat your partner or do what you need to do to increase your happiness.

10. Fantasizing about a love or sexual relationship with the person. 

At some point, one or both persons begin to fantasize about the relationship becoming physical. They even may begin to have discussions about this, adding to the excitement, intensity and intrigue.

11. Giving or receiving personal gifts from the person.

Another warning sign is when you begin to think about this person when you are shopping, wondering what they like or would show your appreciation. Gift choices are often something intimate that you would not normally give ‘just’ a friend. Gifts send clear messages that the two of you are a ‘close we’ set apart from others, and that the relationship is ‘special.’

12. Planning to spend time alone together or letting it happen.

This behaviour often pushes people to cross the line from a platonic to a sexual relationship.

 Letters from a Private Investigator V

 

A few weeks ago we had a call one Sunday afternoon. The client was in Japan and asked if we could get to the airport in Jakarta to observe an arrival and follow him to his next destination.

The client had flight details and could send pictures. The flight was due in just a few hours.

At this point we had only limited details as to why the client wanted this particular target followed. The client just said he needed help in recovering some stolen property.

Airport Surveillance

Surveillance and hooking arriving targets at airports can be a challenge and needs more resources than usual surveillance. Indonesia Private Investigation Agency will generally use two agents on regular surveillance, but at an airport it needs some detailed planning and preparation with at least three private investigators (depending on the airport).

People leave airports by three methods generally:

• Taxi
• Public transport
• Pick up

Basically at airports the private investigation team will need to consists of:

• Two agents around the arrival gate to identify the target upon arrival;
• An agent at each possible exit;
• Backup support agents along the exit roads.

When a target is identified at an airport the aim of the agents at the arrival gate is to get a positive identification and follow the target until they either get into the public transport system, or the target gets into another vehicle (such as a taxi).

If the target does get into public transport then the agents that hooked them at the arrival gate should keep with them in the transport system. Normally Indonesia Private Investigation Agency prefers to use a man and a woman as the two agents carrying out surveillance at the arrival gate (one has a little luggage). We do this in case surveillance is needed into a public transport system – a man and woman blend inconspicuously on an airport train or bus especially if one has luggage with a flight tag on it.

If the target gets into a taxi or other vehicle (as in the case if they are picked up by someone) the first set of agents need to identify the vehicle details and try to establish which exit they appear to be moving towards.

As soon as they have these details the agent needs to radio the agent at the identified exit points with the details and the support agents.

Target Tracked

Jakarta airport is not overly complicated as far as airports go and our two agents at arrivals were able to identify the target. As the target joined the taxi queue we were also able to get a picture over to the client to confirm we had the right person.

The taxi details were then radioed to IPIA’s third and fourth agents at the exit point and on the road.

These two agents were able to follow the target onto his destination – a hotel.  IPIA has standard procedures for following on a road (we do this for foot surveillance also). The aim (where possible) is for the two agents to switch positions every five or ten minutes. So agent A follows the target and agent B follows agent A. Then they keep switching.

Spooking the Thief

Now we knew the hotel the target was in and had pictures, we has a conference call with client.

The client explained that the target had stolen over $1 million from his company.

For the next step the client wanted one of IPIA’s private investigators to get a letter to the target and then for us to watch. The letter was from the client’s lawyer. He wanted this done immediately before the target slept (within two hours of the target arriving – and keep in mind the target had already flown about 16 hours).

So our agent would not be seen we had someone put the letter under the target’s door when we knew they were inside. IPIA’s private investigators waited in the hotel lobby and outside with a motorbike at the ready.

Within thirty minutes of delivering the letter the target arrived in the lobby with his bags and checked out. He then went back to the airport.

Nothing much happened at the airport. The target was on his phone a lot and went to a few sales counters. Then after a couple of hours he got a taxi.

The Thief Disappears in the Night

It does not matter how well you do your job or how many agents you have, there is always the chance that you will lose a target. There are many reasons, but the trick is to have a back up plan.

The target was lost in the horrendous Jakarta evening traffic.

Good connections with different people is essential for a private investigator. Having worked on over 400 cases Indonesia Private Investigation Agency has developed a range of relationships with organizations such as police, immigration, child protection services, hotels and ………taxi companies.

For a small fee we can give the taxi company the taxi number of the taxi the target was in. They were able to contact the driver for us and find where he dropped our target.

The Second Catch

The thief (or alleged thief) had checked into a very expensive hotel on the outskirts of Jakarta. Our job now was only to observe and follow and, if he left, which we guessed he would, find his next destination.

People tend to think surveillance is exciting. There are times when it gives you a real buzz but often it is boring and very hard work.

Surveillance work is not all about the target being active.For a Private Investigator surveillance is generally 90% inactivity and 10% activity.  So, for every ten hours of surveillance, you will spend 9 hours doing nothing but watching and waiting. Watching what? Nothing much – a door, a car, a hotel lobby.

At least for this case we were indoors in a comfortable and very nice hotel. We could sit in the lobby cafe and see all exit points and the hotel desk.

The Thief Makes a Move

The next day, after staying in his room all night, the target appeared at the check out counter. As we predicted he made his way to the airport.

The client wanted to us to find out where he was going next, and asked us to follow him through to the check in point to see which flight he was taking.

There are two problems with this.

The first problem is the fact that in Indonesia to get access into the check in area you need a valid flight ticket. It is not an open complex. With our contacts this is quite an easy obstacle to overcome.

The second problem however is more difficult to solve whatever airport you are in . Even seeing the counter a target checks in at will not necessarily tell you where someone is going. If for example I fly from the UK to Indonesia my first flight could be from London to Amsterdam or to Dubai, so I check in at these counters and then from Amsterdam or Dubai I go through transit.

Again knowing the right people can make all the difference for a Private Investigation Agency – we were able to get the target’s complete flight itinerary. The target was flying to Singapore (so in Jakarta he would have checked in at the Singapore check in counter) and then onto a Japan airline flight to Japan.

Conclusion

The target left and the client had time to make any arrangements needed in Japan. We reckon the client played a clever move with the letter. The letter, delivered when the target was probably exhausted and frightened but thinking he had escaped, showed him that the client knew where he was and had him tracked. The letter gave the target an escape route – come back now and the consequences will be minimal compared to what they will be if you try and run (and if you do run we will catch you).

The target did meet with our client in Japan. We are not sure what happened to him but we do know the client got the $1 million back (probably minus a few flight costs and the luxurious hotel costs in Jakarta).

Disclaimer: this case history is true. However, we have changed a few details such as flight destinations for reasons of confidentiality. IPIA would also stress that whilst the target in this article is often described as “the thief” this is done purely for as a convenience for retelling this case. The target had not been convicted of the alleged crime when IPIA carried out this case.

 Letters from a Private Investigator I 

Dating Cons in Indonesia

 Indonesia Private Investigation Agency (IPIA)  and Bali Eye Private Investigation Agency are seeing more cases of dating cons in Indonesia. Foreigners (especially men) and weak law enforcement are creating an environment in which scammers can operate with very little risk.

Nowadays with the internet and all that brings such as Yahoo Messenger, Skype, WhatsApp and many more social media sites make it possible for anyone to find and develop a relationship and start dating with a person on the other side of the world.

It is sad that whilst most of the people dating online act sincerely, and intense and real feeling do develop, these conditions of sincerity drag the unscrupulous con artists from the gutters. These scam artists have seemed to make it their intention to take money from online victims.

In this article, we will give a brief overview of some of the kinds of dating scams IPIA has come across, how to recognize them, and what to do if you think you are a victim of a dating scam.

So what is a dating con and who are the scammers?

Dating scammers usually fall into one of three categories:

An individual/couple

This is usually a female on the face of it who dates several people at the same time, collecting money and gifts from each. These individuals sometimes live with husbands or boyfriends, who help the girl with the scam.

A translation service

This is set up to as a kind of control centre, looking at every interaction with the person they are translating for. Services like these seem to offer great assistance, but in reality they often act as more of a matchmaker, and paid a large amount of money when their client receives a proposal for marriage and another large sum of money upon emigration to the US or other destination country.

A group of con artists

This is really a long sting operation and very dangerous (or rather costly) for the victim. The team try and slowly and systematically draw the victim in.

Their intention is to make the victim (him or her) through the dating process fall in love and then impose ever-increasing demands.

They may ask to pay a dowry to “parents”, buy them a house, help with hospital bills (for a mother for example), invest in a house for the girlfriend.

and victim to share or otherwise part with small and large amount of money.

Examples of dating scams:

As a private investigation firm, IPIA has handled many cases involving dating scams.

We always keep all details of our investigations completely confidential.

As illustration we obtained permission from two of our former clients to summarize the facts of their cases below. We have changed (or not revealed) locations or other identifiable details, but these are actual cases to serve as examples.

Foreign Girlfriend Held Hostage in Indonesia

In this case, the client contacted us to help him assist his girlfriend in Indonesia. He told IPIA he had been chatting online with his girlfriend for a few years, but that she had traveled to a certain city in Indonesia (she did not speak Indonesian) and was now being held hostage by unknown people in this city. She was able to get to the phone occasionally to quickly our client and ask for help, but was otherwise unreachable.

We gathered additional information from the client and learned that with the exception of a few phone calls, his contact with his girlfriend had been entirely through text messages and email. He had been sending her hundreds of dollars every two weeks for the previous year or more. His girlfriend had told him that her parents lived in Africa and the client had therefore sent the money to a man in Africa all that time. When the client provided photos sent to him by his girlfriend, they turned out to be professionally taken modeling photos of a beautiful blonde girl in her early 20s.

We did a quick check of some of the emails and found that they came from Africa, not from the Indonesian city, from which the girlfriend supposedly sent them.

At that point, we advised the client that he did not need to hire us, that the girlfriend probably did not exist. We asked that he give his girlfriend our phone number and ask her to call us aE” that he had given us the money he normally sent to her (of course he had not really) and that we would help her, get her the money and help her leave Indonesia.

She never called IPIA and the client was finally convinced. He had been paying a Nigerian con-man hundreds of dollars for two years. We warned our client that the con-man could try and start using his financial information to steal whatever money he could, now that he knew the he had been found out.

Girlfriend and Man Buy a House Together

This situation is a very common story in Indonesia. There are a few variables but the essence is more or less the same.

The man meets a girl online, travels to her city to meet her and meets her parents. He stays in a hotel for a while before returning to his home country.

The girl now convinces the client to invest in a house in her city and some months later, he returns to visit her, along with cash. On the outside it all looks legitimate as they go with a translator to the real estate sales office and fill out the sales contract in both of their names.

Both sign and all documents are officially stamped. The man pays cash to the property sales person and is given a receipt. The girl keeps the documents, as they need to stay in that country. He returns home, but finds that she is less and less communicative. When she breaks off contact, he hires IPIA.

He has videotape of his visit to purchase the property, along with all parties on tape. We find out that the sales person on the tape were not an employee of their company and that the purchase documents were filed in her name only, with no mention of the client. The girlfriend had since sold the property.

IPIA tracked down the girlfriend and gave her a chance to make things right with the client, or be arrested. She re-opened communication with him, crying and telling him that she was forced to trick him by mysterious unknown parties (a common theme) and begged his forgiveness. Against our recommendation, the client decided to let it go and trust her again (another strange phenomenon, which is not uncommon). She kept up the communication for just long enough to disappear again (with the money of course).

Our client had some legal claims against the real estate development company, where the contract was signed, but the client decides not to pursue that possible remedy. He has not heard from his former fiancee since.

Here are some warning signs.

• emergencies and sudden illness that pop up early and often;
• claims of love that seem just too quick;
• requests for financial assistance;
• photographs that look like they were taken by a professional or copied from the internet. You can check the names of the files to see if they have the same file name structure. Real photos will also usually be larger in size (mb);
• problems with visa or passport that require your assistance;
• problems with people threatening them – translator, bill collector, some other thug;
• inability to reach the person (phone doesn’t work or too expensive, phone always turned off);
• communication only through email and messaging;
• rigid time schedule for contact;
• use of a translation service;
• unwarranted interest in financial information – social security (identity) number, mother’s maiden name, etc.

What should you do if you are a victim of a dating con?

Some scammers are interested in more than just gifts and money from the victim. These scammers will gather information during the “relationship” and use that information to hack credit card and bank accounts and even steal the victim’s identity.

Before confronting the scammer, you should first make a list of what information they have about you. Do they have your social security number and date of birth from an immigration form? Do they have your mother’s maiden name from a conversation? Do they have your banking information from a wire transfer?

First, secure your personal information. Change your passwords. Call your bank and tell them about your fears and as them to put an extra level of security on your account. Get an instant online credit report from all credit bureaus. Confirm that no new accounts have been opened and then have the bureaus flag your credit file, so that you receive a call when new account requests are made.

Now you are ready to confront the dating scammer. You may want to pursue legal action against them and/or recover valuables if any have been stolen. BEPIA can help with that. Talk to us about what information you have about them and we will fill in the blanks and bring them to justice.

Bali Eye Private Investigation Agency (BEPIA) along with our sister agency Indonesia Private Investigation Agency (IPIA) are fully registered Private Investigation Agencies offering private detective and private investigator services to the Private and Business sectors throughout Indonesia and South East Asia.

Letters from a Private Investigator II

 

 

Private Investigators Catch an Embezzler

This is a true private investigation case IPIA and BEPIA solved recently tracking and catching an embezzler. We have changed the names, places and dates to protect confidentiality.

Modern technologies are incredibly useful for a private investigator in Indonesia but at the end of the day it is the old fashioned leg work, patience and perseverance and the thrilling chase that closes a case.

Modern Technologies and Old Fashioned Leg Work in Private Investigation Work in Indonesia

Background

In early February our private investigator agency had a call from someone in Jakarta. We will call him Fred. Fred was extremely worried for his wife, Jane, as she was likely to go to prison although she seemed innocent and a victim of a set up.

Jane worked in the finance department in a large company in Jakarta.

In the same company there was another senior financial officer, Steve, working as a freelance auditor.

From 2010 Steve started to ask money from Jane. The reasons he gave were all related to the company’s tax payments. Jane, being young and naive, believed her senior partner after assurances that it would be fine to skip the usual financial controlling systems.

In late 2012 the company’s Director checked their tax status and found taxes had not been paid since 2010. The amount had accumulated to around 5 billion IDR ($500,000).

Jane was asked for her explanation and showed all the transfer scripts she had from Steve.

The Target

Fred had called Indonesia Private Investigation Agency (IPIA) to have our private investigators track and find Steve, the embezzler, who had disappeared.

We asked Fred to give us three weeks to complete the case.

Our Private Investigators Track the Embezzler 

Our private investigator’s first task was to find out the target’s location. All we really had to go on was a telephone number, and a date of birth (because Steve was freelance, or perhaps there were other reasons the company did not want to co-operate).

Officially SIM cards in Indonesia must be registered with a valid ID, or for foreigners a passport. This system was introduced as a security measure especially in light of terrorist threats.

In reality though in Indonesia, as any private investigator can tell you, you can buy a SIM card from any small shop and they will activate the card for you using their own details. So a track on a registered user will not always get you a target’s details.

Our luck was in. It turned out Steve had registered “correctly” (not a very smart embezzler mind) and he was registered as having an address in Bandung (about three hours from Jakarta).

Our private investigator team made their way to the house. However it was his ex-wife’s house and they don’t have any contact with Steve anymore (or so they said).

We did though learn that Steve had a mother who was sick and his ex-wife gave us the address (so we guess she was not lying when she said she had had no contact with Steve).

We got to Steve’s address and for four days we waited. He just did not show.

The Trace and Chase

If a telephone number is active and switched on our private investigators can track the location within a 200 meter radius.

We had been trying for a few days but the phone was always off.

Then Steve appeared on our radar system, blinking away in Bali.

The chase was on, but like any good hunter knows a great deal of patience is needed.

Within three hours we had the Director of Investigations travel from Jakarta to Bali to meet up with our sister agency Bali Eye Private Investigation Agency (BEPIA).

You can imagine how many houses there are in a built up area of a 200-meter radius. So with both IPIA and BEPIA working together we canvassed the area for three days. He was still blinking away on our radar but we could not find him.

Then out of the blue a trace shows him back in Jakarta.

Any fisherman knows the feeling when you are close to a catch but the fish gets away. That feeling is the same for a private investigator. But still almost two weeks had passed by and despite the loss we were still confident of catching the embezzler.

Perseverance and perseverance. And as every private investigator knows that brings its own luck. So off we went back to Jakarta and started the canvassing there.

Not again? Yes two days later Steve appeared back in Bali.

But our private investigators had not just been running around like a headless chicken following telephone  tracks. We had other private investigators doing more background research and with help from some financial consultants we finally got a solid lead: Steve has a wife in Bali and we now knew his address there.

The Hook Is In

I called in to the BEPIA and got them at the address immediately. Our private investigators had a picture and description and they were on standby surveillance whilst I came back to Bali.

After two days we saw him and got a nice crisp photo that we sent to our client Fred for confirmation. We also confirmed his means of transportation (cars and motorbikes etc.) and stayed still waiting.

Our client Fred took the next flight to Bali. I met him (of course one team was with the embezzler the whole time) and we sat for a while in an airport cafe to discuss the next steps.

As we sat there a BEPIA private investigator called me and said Steve and his wife were on the move. Fred and I went straight to their house and saw their car on the road.

I followed them with two car covers between my car and theirs. This close finally after all this time the heart beats. This is when the chase really makes me love my job. The thrill is in the chasing and not the apprehension, the pursuit you see and never the arrest. Not that the capture does not give me a great buzz and sense of satisfaction, but the nervousness comes with the chase.

Steve and his wife were moving towards the airport. This suspicion was strengthened by my BEPIA colleague telling me they had two small bags with them (not shopping bags).

The Net Closes

I never let Fred know but at this stage I was a little bit panicked.

I was weighing up what I needed to do when they arrived at the airport. I knew I had to ask police to help at this stage.

IPIA/BEPIA private investigators have a close relationship with the police and I had already had dinner with one contact a few days before to brief them just in case help was needed. I called my contact and asked if he could meet us at the airport.

As Steve pulled near the departure parking I pulled my car next to his.

My police contacts were there to meet us and we landed the target.

I actually thought I might get a round of applause from the whole airport, but no-one of course knew what was happening or what me and my private investigator team had been through. It was all done very quietly and the big embezzler was like a shuttling little timid mouse in a corner, and off he was taken to the airport’s police station.

A few hours later the police had the proof they needed as Steve confessed looking tired and scared (if he had lawyered up he probably would have been able to walk free).

Fred did not want to take him to court (and what the company finally did with Steve he was not that concerned with). All he wanted was protection for his wife and a written statement from Steve admitting what he had taken and was using the company’s money for his own sake.

Indonesia Private Investigation Agency (IPIA) and our sister agency  Bali Eye Private Investigation Agency (BEPIA) are fully registered Private Investigation Agencies offering private detective and private investigator services to the Private and Business sectors throughout Indonesia and South East Asia.

Letters from a Private Investigator IV

In our last post (Facebook: The PI Friend) we already covered how useful Facebook and other social media sites can be as private investigator tools, and indeed anyone wanting to carry out their own “research”.

Most people probably think of state of the art spy tools when they think of private investigator tools. This is true to some extent – IPIA and our sister agency BEPIA  uses advanced cameras and recording equipment, bionic ear dishes and portable voice changers. We also have access to forensic laboratories

The foundation of a private investigator’s work though is really built on tools that are common and available from many places (if not free) and not just specialised shops. Without these tools it would be difficult to operate.

Five Private Investigator Tools Anyone Can Use

Advanced Google Searches

You can find almost anything on the web, and therefore Google may seem like an obvious choice  as a private investigator tool considering it is by far the most popular search engine out there.

Similar though to IPIA’s post on Facebook as a private investigation tool (Facebook: The PI Friend) not too many people know how to take full advantage of the advanced capabilities of Google.

For example the “Around” feature will search for two terms within a specific number of words near each other, the “site” operator will search a specific website for terms and the “-” (minus sign) operator will exclude a term.  These are  just a few of many advanced search operators that you can use with Google.

Skype for Private Investigators

Skype of course is good for free skype to skype calling, very cheap international calls and video conferencing where you can have a video chat with many people.

Additionally, Skype as a tool for private investigators has various third party add-on’s. One of the best is the ability to record phone calls.  IPIA uses different free add-on applications that can turn any conversation into a MP3 recording.  Be careful here though – you could be breaking the law if you try this yourself. Laws vary in different countries with regards to recording phone calls.

Digital Scanner

This may be an off the shelf private investigator tool but it is not that cheap. Still it is openly accessible to anyone. Having the ability to scan hundreds of pages of documents in a matter of minutes used to be the kind of stuff you would see in James Bond movies, but not anymore.  Scanning hundreds, if not thousands of pages of documents into searchable digital files, can save hours of  looking over paper documents.  Our private investigators use the Fujitsu ScanSnap S1500; it’s portable, scans both sides of the page in one pass and it’s fast and reliable.

PDF Converter and OCR Software

Converting documents into PDF compatible files can be very useful.  In Indonesia in particular most cases produce lots and lots of paper. Therefore having the ability to store digital files into a searchable format can be a huge timesaver and can help you find documents quickly and easily.  IPIA uses the Adobe Acrobat Standard, which is reliable and very functional, despite a hefty price tag.

Google Desktop

Having hundreds (if not thousands) of digital files can be a problem for a private investigator if you don’t know where they are.  Google Desktop constantly scans your hard drive, Internet history and your emails so you will never “lose” anything ever again.

Indonesia Private Investigation Agency (IPIA) along with our sister agency Bali Eye Private Investigation Agency (BEPIA) are fully registered Private Investigation Agencies offering private detective and private investigator services to the Private and Business sectors throughout Indonesia and South East Asia.

Letters from a Private Investigator III

Facebook: The Private Investigator Friend

Facebook can be a very good friend to a private investigator or anyone that wants to do their own investigations IF you know a couple of  tricks.

It took our private investigators quite while to work out how to really squeeze Facebook.  Perhaps you are like me – at first I just could not find people.

Well it was easy enough to find people I was not looking for. BUT the problem for a private investigator with Facebook is there are many many privacy settings.

Twitter, Facebook, Pinterest, all the new social media sites, are  playing a bigger and bigger role for private investigators, and there is no bigger site around at the moment  than Facebook.

With 800 million active Facebook users, it’s more common for someone to be on Facebook than not. Social media sites such as Facebook offer a massive amount of information that might be relevant to a private investigator including an asset investigation or a business or personal background check.

In fact just last week I had a client that asked me to get pictures of someone’s family and also find her work history. My client wanted surveillance but I suggested first I just use some “magic” private investigator tools. Approaching it this way we could reduce the amount of surveillance needed and therefore make it less expensive for the client. Within an hour or so through some Facebook tricks I had all the pictures she was after along with the target’s curriculum vitae. This was then verified with the minimum surveillance needed.

As i said one of the big challenges for private investigators (or anyone for that matter) to find somebody on Facebook is all the privacy settings that people use so that they can not be found. But there are ways around that, which we will go into below.

Here are four ways to find somebody on Facebook:

Facebook Search

The obvious place for a private investigator to start is Facebook’s own search feature. Here you can search by the person’s name, school or company. You must have an active account in order to access this feature. In order to find a person on Facebook, the person you are looking must not have their privacy settings turned on so that the person can be looked up by name or contact info.

Email Address

For most social networks, Facebook included, you can find somebody by typing in an email address. So even if a user profile has been set up under a completely false name, a private investigator can still find the person by typing his or her email address into the Facebook search engine.

Site Operator

The big secret about Facebook that perhaps not everyone knows is that even if privacy settings are set any comments a person makes become public.

So what you can do is use the site operator in Google. This will search all pages that have been indexed by Google. If you include site: in your query, Google will restrict your search results to the site or domain you specify.

So, for example, lets say a private investigator is looking for Tom Cruise, you would type “site:www.facebook.com Tom Cruise.”

Search Friends, Family and Colleagues

You can of course control your own privacy settings, but not other people’s. Facebook even has its own family search, where a private investigator can search by family last name. If friends, family or colleagues don’t change some privacy settings, you may be able to find the person by looking through the friend lists of friends, colleagues, family and coworkers.

So What Next?

If you have found the person’s profile, well done.

But the person may have set their privacy settings so you can not look at the person’s wall or pictures.

Don’t give up. Think like a private investigator. We have found that people often leave their friend lists open, which can help you find other information.

Indonesia Private Investigation Agency (IPIA) along with our sister agency  Bali Eye Private Investigation Agency (BEPIA) are fully registered Private Investigation Agencies offering private detective and private investigator services to the Private and Business sectors throughout Indonesia and South East Asia.